If you don’t believe in yourself who will?

It has been in my experience that the number one reason people don’t succeed here is they don’t believe in themselves.  Let me tell you if you don’t believe in yourself there is no way you are going to be able to handle the rejection that comes your way on the road to success.

Let me ask you this question, when you set your goals to what you want to achieve do your really believe in those goals?  Let me ask you another question, when you set those goals who do you go to with them?  You?  If you don’t believe in yourself, you are the worst person to know what you are capable of.  You are the worst reflection of all the head trash that you hear from friend, family, even people in the training program.  Things like, “You will amount to nothing”, “Who do you think you are?”  “Stop Dreaming and get a real job”, or my favorite, “No one in your family amounted to anything what makes you think you’re different?”.

Listen, I hear some crazy stuff from people.  It’s okay to doubt yourself, it’s not wrong, but you have to break that cycle.  True success is hard.  It takes long hours, it takes dedication, but most importantly you have to believe you are capable of being successful.  In my opinion I think we were all taught wrong on how to believe in ourselves.  I think there is a specific order in reaching true belief in one’s self.

The first step is someone has to believe in you.  The second step is you have to believe in someone.  Finally, when you have the first two you will believe in yourself.

So you don’t know it yet and sometimes we don’t act like it but here at All Star Motivation or whatever company you are at we believe in you.  You wouldn’t be here otherwise.  Why do we do mangers meetings?  Why do we constantly try and teach you things?  Why do we do this news letter?  Why do we push you harder than you have ever been pushed?  Yes, most of those answers are because we want to grow and expand.  There is a secondary answer to that also, we believe you are someone who is capable of helping the company grow.  We believe in you, or we wouldn’t be wasting our time.  We are waiting on you to know this yourself.  When you do, guess what?  You will be promoted and on your way to success.

Okay, second step is up to you.  Do you believe that All Star Motivation is where you want to be?  Do you believe in what we are doing?  Are you fully committed to doing whatever it takes to get your own building?  It happens all the time, people come and people go.  It’s fun to watch them come back and see that the company is more successful then when they left.  That’s because everyone we have believes in what we are trying to accomplish.  So go all in!  Commit yourself to believing that All Star Motivation has your best interest at heart.  We want you to succeed as badly as you do because it grows the company.  Stop wasting time on the losers in your life and believe in us like we believe in you!

If you master one and two, then you will truly start to believe in yourself.  When you truly believe in yourself it’s like becoming a Zen Master, a Jedi Master, a black belt in life all wrapped up in one.  Believing in yourself, especially when others don’t, that can bring an enormous sense of triumph when you manage to accomplish your goals. Doubly so, because it is despite all the people who didn’t think it could be done, or at least not by you.  Everything in your life will change.  You will walk different, you will talk different, people will want to follow your example.  You will become their step two, they will believe in you and what you will be able to do for them on their journey to success.  That’s a huge responsibility. Having someone believe in you and what you can teach them is the best feeling in the world.  Watching them become successful because of what you taught them…..man……I just can’t explain it, it’s pure bliss.

If you don’t believe in yourself who will?  We will!  So get your head up and start understanding that success will not be easy.  It can be fun though.  This journey we are all on for a better life.  Let me tell you 20 years of doing this business means something to me, Chad and Billy.  So what does it mean to you?  Are you fully committed?  Do you believe in All Star Motivation?  Faith can move mountains but doubt will create them. —EDUB